My Unsung Hero

The NPR podcast Hidden Brain has a short segment called “My Unsung Hero”.

It features people telling the stories of kindnesses that they received and their gratitude for the compassionate acts that made all the difference for them. I’m often touched by these stories, which highlight how a small moment of generosity or thoughtfulness that costs a person so little can be so meaningful to those who receive it. It’s inspired me to think back on who in my life I could consider an unsung hero, and I’ve reflected on the teachers and mentors who shaped me, and the way their support helped me see what was possible for myself. So many small interactions, from providing guidance or listening to my concerns, helped me move forward in my journey. For me, while no one single memory, teacher, or mentor rises above all others, thinking back on the moments I’m grateful for has been a way to honor the role these people had in my life.

On the other hand, this segment also makes me think of how I might be an unsung hero for others. That I can show up in anyone’s life—be it a stranger, a colleague, or close friend—and show kindness, compassion and thoughtfulness that eases their pain or lightens their load. Most days and moments are entirely ordinary, but as this segment highlights, we’re often unaware of the kind of impact we have on someone. In a way, it is an act of faith to go into the world with the idea that at some point, I might be someone’s unsung hero. All this to say, “My Unsung Hero” has deepened my appreciation for the web of interactions that ties us together and has given me motivation to spread more love to others.

Creator, we are in this world to share your love with others. Thank you for the love we receive and help us remain mindful to the way we treat others, your beloved children.

Elizabeth is a Peace Church member living in Chicago, where she runs by the lake and walks her dog, even in the winter.